Today I'm remembering a sweet, tear-jerking incident that happened at school one December. As I was trying to get my materials packed and leave a classroom, I was swarmed by children who had things to tell me. Since the teacher was frantically trying to get the class to lunch on time, I shooed them back to their seats. One determined little boy, however, wasn't to be stopped so easily. He hung back as I exited the room and then followed me out into the hall. Now this little child was one of my frequent visitors, and also one of my all-time favorites due to his angelic heart (seriously!). In a soft, urgent tone of voice, he said, "Miss Mimi, I need to tell you something. You know that holiday shop in the library?" Knowing that he was referring to a PTA-sponsored shopping experience aimed at helping children buy inexpensive gifts for their families, I nodded. With earnest eyes, he leaned back against the wall and continued. "Well if I had had five more dollars, I would have bought you something. I just had to buy for my family first." Seeing his genuine dejection, I took his little fair-skinned face in my hands and said, "Sweetie, you NEVER have to buy me a present. I know you need to get gifts for your family first, and that's how it's supposed to be. All I want you to do for me is give me a hug and tell me you like talking with me." Nodding his head in understanding, the child said, "Actually I LOVE talking with you, and I think I'm gonna get to see you in 3 more days." Well obviously that was ALL the present I needed. What really makes this story so meaningful is that this precious little boy was one of our children who was considered homeless since he and his family lived in a motel room. It's moments like these that make a career and a life fulfilling and keep me going when things get a little too humdrum. Merry Christmas, Everyone!
This is mostly a blog of everyday stories from my work as a primary school counselor. Some are funny, some are touching, but they all stand out as memorable moments. Sometimes I'll include photos, ideas that are working for me, and meaningful quotes. Enjoy!
Saturday, December 12, 2015
Christmas Love
Today I'm remembering a sweet, tear-jerking incident that happened at school one December. As I was trying to get my materials packed and leave a classroom, I was swarmed by children who had things to tell me. Since the teacher was frantically trying to get the class to lunch on time, I shooed them back to their seats. One determined little boy, however, wasn't to be stopped so easily. He hung back as I exited the room and then followed me out into the hall. Now this little child was one of my frequent visitors, and also one of my all-time favorites due to his angelic heart (seriously!). In a soft, urgent tone of voice, he said, "Miss Mimi, I need to tell you something. You know that holiday shop in the library?" Knowing that he was referring to a PTA-sponsored shopping experience aimed at helping children buy inexpensive gifts for their families, I nodded. With earnest eyes, he leaned back against the wall and continued. "Well if I had had five more dollars, I would have bought you something. I just had to buy for my family first." Seeing his genuine dejection, I took his little fair-skinned face in my hands and said, "Sweetie, you NEVER have to buy me a present. I know you need to get gifts for your family first, and that's how it's supposed to be. All I want you to do for me is give me a hug and tell me you like talking with me." Nodding his head in understanding, the child said, "Actually I LOVE talking with you, and I think I'm gonna get to see you in 3 more days." Well obviously that was ALL the present I needed. What really makes this story so meaningful is that this precious little boy was one of our children who was considered homeless since he and his family lived in a motel room. It's moments like these that make a career and a life fulfilling and keep me going when things get a little too humdrum. Merry Christmas, Everyone!
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